Why Questions Are the Answer!

 

Why Questions are the AnswerThere are many factors that contribute to your chances of achieving the business success and lifestyle freedom that you really want.

Things such as clear and specific goals, an effective business strategy, your mindset, good time management and so on.

However, sometimes it is the quite small and simple things, that are often overlooked, that can have a huge impact. They can create change and results really effectively. One of the things that falls into this category is asking questions.

Let me explain:

Statements change nothing!

One of the habits I see going on a lot, that keeps many people stuck, is making statements. Here are a few examples:

  • I’m not making enough money
  • I’m working too many hours
  • I don’t have enough clients
  • I don’t have enough quality time with my family
  • My lifestyle is not how I would like it

Questions are the Answer!

All these statements might be very true but it is habit that doesn’t lead to actions and change. Statements used in this way, hold back progress.

A very simple and highly effective habit to create that turns this on it’s head is to ask questions instead. For example:

  • What do I need to do to make more money?
  • What needs to happen so that I can work less hours?
  • What do I need to do to attract more than enough clients?
  • What can I put in place to protect quality time with my family?
  • What needs to change to create my ideal lifestyle?

See the difference?

Questions are infinitely more powerful than statements.

Questions lead to a different mindset about a situation. A different mindset leads to different behaviour and actions. Different behaviour and actions leads to different results.

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing – Albert Einstein

So if you want to create real change and different results stop making statements about situations and get into the habit of asking questions of yourself instead.


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  • barneyausten

    Love it. Nice simple way of turning your thought processes on it's head to make sure you get what you are seeking.

  • http://alidavies.com/ Ali Davies

    Thanks Barney. You hit the nail on the head – turning round thought processes key to getting different results.

  • http://www.6aliens.com Ben Lumley

    Love this post Ali.

    I annoy people a lot because I can be the why guy. Why are you doing this? Why don't you think you achieved this time? Why are we working towards this goal?

    When people can ask those kinds of questions they often find that the reasons for them not achieving something becomes apparent

  • http://alidavies.com/ Ali Davies

    Glad you like it Ben.

  • http://www.diary4life.com Paul

    Ali,

    You can tell you're a coach; I love the way you've turned the statements into questions. This is such an under used skill when helping people to see through their problems to their desired outcome.

    Thanks for sharing your ideas

    Regards

    Paul

  • http://alidavies.com/ Ali Davies

    It is important for coaches, consultants and mentors to use questioning effectively to help clients. Equally important is to help people to create a habit of asking questions of themselves. Glad you enjoyed this post Paul.

  • Anonymous

    You are so right. Often we close ourselves off by such statements that we think are absolutely true. Sometimes I find it helps to ask even more basic questions, like ‘ Do I need to make more money at all?’ ‘ Do I actually need to be in this business relationship?’ etc. Have you ever found yourself exasperated over a situation and then in a simple quiet moment you saw that you didn’t need to be there at all, but until that moment you weren’t open to that simple question, so that solution hadn’t occurred to you?

  • http://alidavies.com/ Ali Davies

    Hi Ann
    Your comment raises a really important point – it is important that as we ask ourselves questions we should make sure that the answers are based on our core values and our vision of how we want things to really be. Otherwise it is easy to be finding answers that are linked to other influences that will take us off course.

    As you point out, it is important to find a quiet moment or some space to ask ourselves those questions to allow the mind to find clarity around the question. The mind needs space to process questions and to find answers. It just doesn’t happen if we are always busy which is why, as you point out, feelings such as exasperation can come up.

    Thanks for dropping by Ann